A Dead Sibling

afireinside917 · Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 4

My brother of 22 years old recently died, and i have never had a dream about him until a few nights before halloween and it was really weird. I was crying, and he appeared on a bike all of a sudden. He sat next to me in a couch and talked to me. He told me that he would always be there for me. After that, I never had a dream about him again. I am really sad because I wnat to see him again. I feel that since I can't see him alive, and since he always knew i was afraid of ghosts, he appeared in my dream. He was shot in the head and died in the hospital, and i saw it all happen. I just want to see him again. I really miss him a lot. Why did I only have this dream once?

flossy · Posted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 7:39 pm Post subject:

im sorry to hear about your brother, it couldnt of been a nice thing to see happen, maybe its cos he knows it upsets you too much

lovleymum · Joined: 22 Jun 2007 Posts: 8 Location: aberdeen

well your brother probaly coudnt leave the grounds, i think that every ghost,spirit demon has a purpose like tasks, now maybe your brother wasnt ready to leave until he did his duty you should be proud of yourself youve helped him go to a better place as long as he is in ur mind and heart thats all he would want making sure you were ok was his task hun x

bitterbuck1 · Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 10:42 pm Post subject:

What you all have written should put Afireinside at ease.

Smile

lovleymum · Joined: 22 Jun 2007 Posts: 8 Location: aberdeen

i hope so

Kizzie · Joined: 03 Jul 2007 Posts: 69 Location: derbyshire

I too lost a very close family member in a sudden and shocking way, i also found his body.
My understanding of the spirit world helped me to cope with my loss, i knew i would see him again and i did.
I see him almost every week but only in my dreams, he knew where to come to see me because both of us had a great understanding of all things spiritual and we knew eachother too well.
The first time he came to me was so good, we held eachother and i could feel the warmth of his body and the strength of his arms, in the dream i knew he was dead and so did he.
Theres more but i just needed to tell you that all you have to do is not to expect it to happen when you want it too, it will happen again but just when you least expect it.
be strong.

bitterbuck1 · Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:47 pm Post subject:

Hi Kizzie, and welcome to the forum.

Thanks for sharing your experience, with us.
Sorry to hear of your loss.

Kizzie · Joined: 03 Jul 2007 Posts: 69 Location: derbyshire

dont be sorry, he is free and i am selfish to want him back, and when its my turn he is already there to guide me home.

but thanx for your kind words, i love this site and i have been on many others like it over the years but so far this one is the best.

casper · Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside

i lost my mum and brother only months apart both were sudden so i know what your all feeling.i have very real dreams of going shopping with my mum cos thats what we used to do together.she was my friend as well as my mum.when i wake up i have mixed feelings part of me is sad cos it was only a dream the other half is pleased that i had a visit.
i have not seen my brother yet but he has come through to my partener and to a medium and i know he is there.

bitterbuck1 · Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 9:26 pm Post subject:

This is a great site Kizzie, once you get to know everyone it will be like a family.

casper · Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside

yeh they are brill in here i can tell these guys anything and i hope they feel the same about me.

bitterbuck1 · Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 10:08 pm Post subject:

Yeppers!

casper · Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside

i have made alot of friends on here and i too have been on another site and i found that there was one person on that site who thought it was fun to pick on me and bully me but on here their all nice and im going to stay on this site now.

flossy · Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 10:32 pm Post subject: hi

people like that are not worth knowing, bullys are lower than the lowest

casper · Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside

i agree they are not worthy of the air we breath.