A medium though not a medium?

Pandora · Joined: 23 Jul 2010 Posts: 15 Location: Vienna, Austria

Well here is my problem, for a long time now i'm into paranormal things, most of all ghosts and hauntings. When i was living in England with my boyfriend, i met one of his aunts at a wedding, she just looked at me and when i asked her, why she looked at me in that strange kind of way, she just said: U r a medium, u know? I was kinda surprised, i never really thought of that before, but she said that i have something around me that tells her i can communicate with ghosts. well, so far so good, that explains why i'm so into that topic but that doesn't explain why i first of all never had a proper contact and only corner of the eye experiences and why i'm totally scared whenever i'm alone and thinking about ghosts. how can this be? i mean i read every book and wátch every docu about paranormal things, but as soon as it gets dark and i'm alone at my flat i just get paranoid. i tried a lot of things, i'Ve also been on a few ghost hunts and slowly i can manage without freaking out but if i'm on my own i'm so scared that a ghost could manifest in front of me. is there any remedy for that? Confused

Krazy · Joined: 03 Aug 2010 Posts: 68

Pandora do you want to be a medium/psychic? If so you need some practice . Seek out a psychic developement class, if there is any near to where you live or a good Spiritualist Church. There you will learn how to meditate and how to channel your energies. I know it sounds scary at the thought of seeing spirit, but its nothing to worry about. The thing that worries me, is just because your boyfriend`s aunt says your a medium. Doesn`t mean you are! only you yourself know. By what you have written, I don`t think you are, as I think by now you would have had your own experiences. Keep on with your interest in the paranormal, but please don`t be afraid. As I say, even if you are not a medium, maybe going along to a spiritual church or developement class may help. If you aint got it , you aint got it anyhow. So at least if you went, you may have more understanding and might not be so scared. Good Luck.

Pandora · Joined: 23 Jul 2010 Posts: 15 Location: Vienna, Austria

Thanks for your answer, u might be right, although, i do have feelings sometimes, like someone wants to make him or her known to me. i sometimes have a very certain smell in my nose, but just for a second, and that happens in different places. but that's not a big thing i know. other feelings are that it's like any second now i will hear or feel someone appearing and then i try very hard to get it out of my mind, occupying myself with other stuff and pretending there is nothing. it's always just little things, although i know for certain that at least i have some sort of protective angel with me, because over the years so many things nearly happened to me that it is more than just pure incidence. But as u suggested, i will try to find people who can help me finding out more about my maybe ability. I have to say though, that where i live it is nothing acceptable to believe in the paranormal world, i'm seen by many as some sort of lunatic. My parents accept me but just make fun of it, so it won't be easy but u never know, sometimes a door opens without u searching for it:o)

D B Sweeney · Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2010 2:59 pm Post subject:

Pandora,

You're just a normal person being subjected to the same stimuli that we all all. LIke everyone else you're just interpreting it in your own way. That nice fuzzy feeling you have about certain things isn't an angel it's a surge of emotion, of chemicals and endomorphins in your brain. All experiences are subjective. One mans fart is another mans sweet perfume.
Please research and read more about human perception and don't be fooled into believing you are psychic without examining the evidence for psychic ability. I'm not saying you're not psychic just that it's best to be in possession of the evidence before you go down the path that some people would have you go down.

DB